THIS IS WHAT LOWERS OUR SELF-WORTH

Even if we thought we had the best childhoods, or we can now logically see that our caregivers were doing the best they could, we are still inflicted by the things that we picked up and they skew our perception of ourselves and the world around us today. This could look like perfectionism, people pleasing, being very critical of yourself, procrastination, codependency, and so on.

These things make it difficult to access or feel safe to show up as our authentic, True Self. We learned and internalized that being who we were meant to be, is in some way bad. If we show others who we really are, we will not be loved, we will not be worthy, and not be deserving, These beliefs block us from living our best lives.

There are parts of you that are holding onto limiting beliefs because they think it is unsafe to let go of them. These parts believe that they are helping you get through life unscathed. They learned at a young age  how to help you get your needs met. But are these in alignment with your authentic wants and needs? Often this means you are playing small out of fear that you will be “found out”, out of fear of not being loved and accepted. And it comes with a price. That price is your worth and deservingness.

You must get to the root to evoke real lasting change. To effectively align with your True Self. To build your worth and feel deserving at a soul level. To be empowered to take control of your life on your terms. To be unafraid to move forward in your goals, what other people think, to set healthy limits and boundaries with others. To be free from the weight of past programming, conditioning, and limiting beliefs. This is TRUE Transformation. This is how you become magnetic and manifest the life you’ve always dreamt of!

MAYBE YOU HEARD-

-Your mother, caregiver, or other family member, picked on their own appearance and put so much emphasis on how you look and appear to others. So, you began noticing a critical voice that sounds a lot like mom critiquing your appearance, how you present yourself to the world.

-Or your father or caregiver was very critical of you if you received a bad grade but showed love and affection when you accomplished things, resulting in you becoming a perfectionist afraid to fail for fear of being criticized or not loved and so that you can continue to receive that love and affection.

-Maybe you are in your dream career, but you have this nagging voice telling you that you don’t belong, that you’re a fraud, an imposter, and when everyone finds out, it’ll be over for you and your career.

-Or the fear of failure so great that you often find yourself procrastinating. Or you’re afraid to try something new because you won’t automatically be good at it, so you think -why bother?

IMAGINE…

-No longer having an internal struggle going on inside to “do the right thing” according to everyone else. Instead, you do what is in alignment with you.

-Having healthy satisfying relationships. The ones you feel seen, heard, loved.

-Being surrounded by people that support you and not tear you down or expect so much from you   without giving back. Where you can be accepted as authentically you.

-Being in your worth and your manifestations start pouring in, effortlessly. No longer dictated by that hyper-critical voice.

-No longer being dictated by fear. Instead take healthy risks with career, money, relationships, that align with your goals, dream, aspirations.

-Being in full control of your internal world. Where you are empowered to be Self-led.

This is magnetic!

As we work with these parts, building trust and helping them release these burdens they’ve held onto, an internal shift happens.

These parts are longer afraid of the unknown. No longer do they feel unworthy. You become more open. Your parts trust that your True Self has the best intentions, they allow that energy to flow. To connect to the Universe. And instead of blocking or sabotaging your manifestations, we teach them how to help you take aligned action towards your goals, hopes, and dreams. 

WITHOUT OUR SELF-WORTH-

We can’t manifest the life we’ve always wanted. And no amount of positive thinking or “good vibes only” rhetoric is going to make a profound enough shift to change it.

LET ME REPEAT THAT:

NO amount of positive thinking or “good vibes only” rhetoric is going to make a profound enough shift to change it.

What are you waiting for? Join me on this journey to Align, Connect, and be Empowered to Manifest the life you Truly Desire!

**Client spotlight**

Alice was on a quest for change in her career and love life. She was stuck in a frustrating loop, not getting the support she needed for her career choices and feeling let down in the love department. She questioned who she really was and what she should be doing in her life.

We did some digging and discovered some deep-rooted stuff. It turns out Alice had these patterns from her past – codependency, enmeshment, always looking for validation from the outside world. Those things, mixed with childhood judgment and not feeling validated, messed with her self-image. These issues were roadblocks keeping her from making her dreams manifest.

Enter the Internal Family Systems/Parts Work approach. This is where things got interesting. Alice got to connect with her True Self and work through those parts of her that were stuck in these old patterns. It was like she gained control of her inner world, and that made her feel super empowered. The best part? Those things that used to set her off before, well, they lost their power. She became calmer, more confident, and hopeful.

And then, bam! Alice shared this awesome story about how she manifested a perfect spot for her and her business partner. They’d been renting within another business, but she stumbled upon this storefront for rent, got a vibe, and decided to reach out. It was like the Universe was on her side because she got a quick response, and within days they were checking out this great location. Close to home, busy street, and the rent was even less than what she was paying! Talk about serendipity, right?

But the magic didn’t stop there. Alice was following these little nudges from the Universe and guess what? She got the security deposit and even the furnishings gifted to her! That’s less stress on the budget. Even her parents, who weren’t exactly the cheerleading type before, were genuinely happy for her. She was breaking old patterns with them, setting healthy boundaries, and it paid off.

Alice realized that this was a big manifestation, and she felt ready for the challenge. She had a part of her that was scared, but she worked with it, reassured it, and kept moving forward. She said she’d never felt so magnetic in her life. Then she dropped this gem: “If this manifestation came through before working with Angel, I don’t think I would have been able to handle it. Maybe that’s why it didn’t come through until now. The Universe saw that I was finally ready for it.”

She’s thrilled with this newfound ease in her life, all because she tackled those limiting beliefs and patterns, digging down to the root of it all. No more frustration, just a ton of confidence, and she’s got her sights set on even more awesome things coming her way. It’s like her personal evolution and the Universe is cheering her on. Go, Alice!