I often get asked how to successfully manifest, and I always begin with it’s a bit more than just positive thinking. There are layers to it. So, today I wanted to share my thoughts on how to be successful in manifesting.
Let’s start here first-
Often, we have patterns and cycles that are rooted in limiting beliefs and are based on past programming, conditioning, societal expectations, and norms. Even if we thought we had the best childhoods, or we can now logically see that our caregivers were doing the best they could, we still are inflicted by these things that we picked up and they skew our perception of ourselves and the world around us today. This could look like perfectionism, people pleasing, being very critical of yourself, procrastination, and so on.
These things make it difficult to access our authentic self.
They make it difficult to trust that it is safe to show up as our authentic self. We learned and internalized that being who we were meant to be is in some way bad. That we will not be loved. We will not be worthy. We will not be deserving. These beliefs block us from our authentic, true selves and block our manifestations.
When you go against your gut and say “yes” instead of “no”, you are not aligned with your authentic self. Or you criticize yourself for every little thing from appearance to interactions with others, you are not aligned with your authentic self. When you are trying to be perfect at everything out of fear of failing or that you will be rejected, you are not in alignment with your authentic self.
Here’s a few examples-
Maybe you heard your mother pick on her appearance and put so much emphasis on how you look and appear to others. So, then you began noticing a critical voice that sounds a lot like mom critiquing your appearance.
Or your father was very critical of you if you received a bad grade but showed love and affection when you accomplished things, resulting in you becoming a perfectionist afraid to fail for fear of being criticized and so that you can continue to receive that love and affection.
It could be that the fear of failure is so great that you often find yourself procrastinating. Or you’re afraid to try something new because you won’t automatically be good at it.
Maybe you are in your dream career, but you have this nagging voice telling you that you don’t belong, that you’re a fraud, and when everyone finds out, it’ll be over for you and your career.
These are based on past programming
Conditioning, societal expectations, and norms. These are what your limiting beliefs are rooted in. These block your True Self and block your hopes, dreams, and goals, that you are trying to manifest.
There are parts of you that are holding onto these limiting beliefs because they think it is unsafe to let them go. These parts believe that they are helping you get through life unscathed. But is that really true if you aren’t in alignment with your authentic wants and needs? When are you playing small out of fear that you will be “found out”? They are trying to get you that love. It comes with a price. And that price is your worth and deservingness.
You must get to the root to successfully manifest
To see real lasting change. Be able to effectively align with your authentic self. Build your worth and feel deserving at a soul level. To be empowered to take control of your life on your terms. Be unafraid to move forward in your goals. To be unafraid of what others would think. Unafraid to set healthy limits and boundaries with others. To no longer have the weight of internal judgment
To successfully manifest, we need to be in our worth and in alignment with our True Self and the Universe.
Without our self-worth, we can’t manifest the life we’ve always wanted. And no amount of positive thinking or “good vibes only” rhetoric is going to make a profound enough shift to change it.
Let me repeat that:
NO amount of positive thinking or “good vibes only” rhetoric is going to make a profound enough shift to change it.
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