Money blocks are a real thing
Not just in manifesting money, but in life in general.
If you read posts, articles, listen to podcasts around money, you’ll notice a theme about the psychology of money. This is because financial influencers began noticing that people get caught up in their perceptions around money, otherwise known as money blocks. No matter how much or how little money they have. These perceptions influence how people deal with money, and can result in poor money management, overspending, underspending, scarcity or lack mindset.
Financial knowledge is very important, but they continued to see people, who have the financial knowledge continue to have perceptions that sabotage their goals. Think about it, you probably have knowledge around what a healthy lifestyle looks like, but maybe you can’t quite get into a routine. Knowledge is power, but it’s only the starting point. But, before I get into all of that, read on to get a background of my manifestation method.
Introduction to Manifestation with Internal Family Systems (IFS)
There are so many ways one can manifest. And I am not saying those other ways or methods are wrong, I am just saying that those methods might not work for everyone. We are all unique and need different ways to obtain the same goals or dreams that we are manifesting. My method of manifestation uses Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Unlike other manifestation methods that often dismiss, invalidate, or dismiss any emotions that aren’t positive, this one focuses on addressing the subconscious blocks (those uncomfortable emotions) that get in the way of manifesting. IFS also focuses on bringing us into alignment with our True Self, to become Self-Led, and connected to the Universe. This is how you manifest your most amazing life! But first…
What is Manifestation?
Manifestation is the process of transforming your desires and ideas into reality. It is based on the belief that the Universe is constantly giving you what you focus on, so by focusing on your desires, through intentional actions, you can manifest them into your life.
And for manifestation to work we must believe in ourselves. And really truly believe it to our core. We must believe that we can have what we desire.
The Importance of Self-Worth
You probably have seen so many people manifesting successfully, and you don’t get how that is happening. Maybe because they aren’t “good” people. This is the thing. It’s not about good or bad when it comes to self-worth, people can be selfish, self-righteous, unkind, but they believe in themselves. They have high self-worth.
The secret to manifestation is being in our worth.
This is fundamental. This is the key to manifesting. And it’s not talked about enough. It’s bypassed so often with an unspoken assumption that we are in our worth.
Unfortunately, there are subconscious reasons why we don’t feel worthy of what we are trying to manifest. These are the past programming conditioning, and limiting beliefs that our parts are holding onto.
Addressing Subconscious Blocks
To manifest effectively, we need to delve into our subconscious minds, get to the root of those blocks. Those reasons we are not manifesting the things we desire. Positive thinking is helpful but not enough to create profound shifts. This is because positive thinking is done on a conscious level. Our blocks are in our subconscious. Once we work through these blocks instead of ignoring, avoiding, or dismissing them, then we can use positive thinking. Then it won’t feel like there is something inside fighting us or not believing us. Real manifestation happens once we are in our worth; by addressing the root of our thoughts and feelings, we unlock the incredible potential to manifest our dreams into reality. This is where Internal Family Systems comes in.
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
I view the world through the lens of Internal Family Systems (it’s the therapist in me!). I believe IFS not only works in a therapeutic setting but also within manifestation.
According to IFS, we are composed of many parts, aspects of our personality, and our True Self. Our parts and True Self work together. Our True Self is what connects us to the Universe, it is our higher self, our authentic self. Our parts are what make us human. However, our parts can also take on new jobs and roles based on our experiences. Particularly in childhood/adolescence. IFS helps us connect with these parts of us building relationships and trust within our internal world. No longer having that internal struggle, being pulled in many directions, or second guessing ourselves or our abilities. IFS brings healing and harmony to our internal system, just the way it was intended to be.
Understanding Our Parts
Our parts take on new roles and jobs as a way to protect us, keep us and our internal system safe. Even if it doesn’t seem like it’s the best thing to do, especially as our experiences change. These parts of us are so impacted by our experiences, they internalize them often leading to programming, conditioning, limiting beliefs, negative self-talk, unhealthy behaviors, and ultimately low self-worth. Remember-we must be in our worth to manifest.
Often times, our parts take over. They blend with our True Self, and we are then only operating from a place of past programming, conditioning, and limiting beliefs. This is not the place we want to be when we are trying to manifest!
Using principles of IFS, we learn how to align with our True Self, connect with our parts, and build trusting relationships within the system. By building that trust and relationship, the parts learn that it is safe to allow our True Self to take the lead. We can also work with these parts holding the past programming, conditioning, and limiting beliefs, so they can begin to heal, let go, and feel safe. This is where the magic happens!
Connecting with Your True Self
True Self, also known as our authentic self or higher self, is our intuitive guide. When we are in True Self, we are open to the Universe and can receive what it offers. Accessing True Self energy means being present, connected to our bodies, and aligned with the creative consciousness of the Universe.
Knowing you’re in True Self involves experiencing at least one of the 8 C’s: compassion, curiosity, clarity, creativity, calm, confidence, courage, and connectedness. In other words, are you feeling open? These qualities signify that you are aligned with your True Self and ready to co-create the life you desire with the Universe.
Becoming Self-Led
Themore we go inward, talk to our parts, build a relationship, the more we become Self-led. The more we become Self-led, the more we are opening ourselves up to the Universe. We feel inherently worthy, deserving, of what we are trying to manifest. This is because the parts are no longer jumping in based on what happened in the past. Instead, they feel safe and secure to let our True Self take the lead.
This creates internal harmony and opens us up to the Universe. By working with our parts, we can heal from past programming and limiting beliefs, making space for our manifestations to flow in.
This is how I use IFS to manifest, and it’s my goal to help you too! I guide individuals to get to the root of the subconscious blocks that gets in the way of their manifestations. Through alignment with their True Self, connection with all parts of themselves, and becoming Self-Led, they become open to the Universe and manifest their most amazing lives.
My Money Blocks
When I began manifesting and doing this work, I noticed I had blocks with money. I wanted to manifest more money (I’m sure I’m not alone here!), so I got quiet and put it out to the Universe. Then I listened. And what came up was very interesting. There was a part of me that felt that there wasn’t enough money to go around. This part thought that if I manifested more money and other people manifested more money, it wouldn’t work. The money would run out.
I found this fascinating! I have the belief that money is energy, the more that is needed or wanted the more it will come. So, I didn’t know where this came from. Maybe it came from being told growing up that “money doesn’t grow on trees”? So, I dug deeper, asking this part of me where it got this worry about money from?
Where my money blocks came from
I was so surprised by what came into my mind. Various memories of my parents talking about money began playing through my mind. It was like a montage of memories all put together with the same common theme. That theme was the negativity my parents had towards people with money. According to my parents: “money changes you”, “people with money are selfish and greedy”, “they just like to flaunt their money and rub it into other people’s faces”. They had a general disdain for people that had money and I didn’t realize how much these views seeped into my subconscious and became these core beliefs that essentially were blocking my manifestations.
You might be wondering how the part went from “there’s not enough money to go around” to “people with money are selfish and greedy”. That’s the funny things about our parts, sometimes their fears, worries, or concerns line up with the core belief so well you can understand immediately why it feels the way it does. Other times, like this example, the part went a different route to keep me from being one of “those people” that are “selfish and greedy”. Instead, it focused on the idea that there wasn’t enough to go around, so why bother. It was more of a passive attempt at blocking, I guess!
Common themes with our parts
With our parts there are usually common themes, common misconceptions, common blocks. However when you follow the thread the root of it is often different. You might be wondering why this is. I’ve been working with parts for a long time, between my own parts, my clients in private practice as a psychotherapist, and now with TSM. What I’ve come to learn is there are common patterns based on our gender, sexuality, race, socio-economic status, but the root could be different based on programming and conditioning we picked up on from caregivers, family members, friends, teachers, society. We might have different stories of where it all began, but it becomes a patterned thought or misperception that is all too common. Which is why we often have more in common than we think with each other.
Back to the money blocks…
If someone were to ask me at the time all of this came up if I believed it, I would have said no. Which is why I was so surprised when it came up. Logically I do not think that people with money are selfish and greedy. I know the importance of being financially stable, financially independent, especially women.
I do believe money changes people, but let’s be realistic, it should. Just like any other influence in our lives, we are going to change and grow. I also believe that there are people that have a lot more money than they should and they do not do much with it. I’m looking at you top White Male billionaires. And I also know that statistically women who make more money in general often give back more, are more generous with their money. However, this part that I found hiding out in my mind didn’t receive this memo.
I could have ignored this part, knowing that I don’t believe this and try to ignore it, invalidated it, or dismiss it. I also knew if I went this route it would continue to block my manifestations. These beliefs were deeply rooted and if I wanted to admit it or not, they impacted me. So, I had to admit it, face it, with compassion, curiosity, and without judgment, to help this part let go of these beliefs.
Connecting with the part
Instead of dismissing, ignoring, or invalidating this part, I began connecting with it. Aligning with my True Self, I worked with this part to help it let go of these limiting beliefs so that it no longer is burdened with them. Then I asked the part what it would like to believe around money instead? What new belief would it like to hold? The part found it very important to be generous with others, to help whenever possible, even little things like tipping well was important to this part. My heart sang at the generosity and compassion this part had deep down and how it aligned with my True Self. I just needed to give it that permission because ultimately it was afraid to disappoint my parents.
Parts are funny like that
Another funny thing about parts is that they often don’t know how old we really are. Strange but true. I have my clients ask the part how old the part thinks the client is right now, and then to just listen. Often, an age much younger than the client really is, will come into their heads. Usually, the part still thinks we are children or teenagers. Once the part gets reoriented to the notion that we are adults, they breathe a sigh of relief.
It’s comforting to know that we are adults, it’s a concept they understand. They just don’t catch on to the fact that we have aged until we point it out to them. They feel relief because they understand that we can handle things as adults that we couldn’t as children or teenagers. Also, their relieved because whatever threat was there, is no longer there. We no longer live under our parents or caregiver’s roof. We are no longer in 7th grade (you know what I’m saying!). We likely have much more autonomy. This is empowering to the part and to our internal world as a whole.
Getting to the root of the money blocks
This is how we get to the root of what is blocking our manifestations and illicit an internal shift in the subconscious. Because this is where the work needs to happen, internally, in the subconscious. As we work with those parts, shifting their belief systems to align with who we are now, what we want to manifest, those parts of us also create energy to bring that manifestation in. Our parts can help us with the action steps we need to take towards our manifestations, instead of trying to block or sabotage those steps. This is what True Self Manifestation is all about.
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